Ex's and Oh's: What's up with the bond with our ex's?

I need you to watch this video:
 Let's see a show of hands who has an ex that keeps coming back into your life whether it's on a platonic relationship basis or not?

Thought so.  I was listening to the words to this song the other day and I had to chuckle because it's the truth - those who come into our lives on a boyfriend/girlfriend level never really go away, do they?  Even though you tell them it's over, for some odd reason they keep popping up at the darndest times.

Here's my reasoning on what is going on.  As I have said before, everyone who comes into your life on a soul mate basis does so for a reason.  It's up to you to figure out that reason.  Once you realize the reason or think you do, it's not over.  Even if you have gone on with your life and he has gone on with his, you two still manage to bump into each other, call each other for platonic reasons and even though you have no intentions on having the same relationship with this person, they're always popping up and stirring up whatever emotions you had in the past which may or may not be healthy for either one of you or the new soul mates who have entered your lives.

But you have to understand that the bond is never going to go away.  Even if they die, that bond is still there.  The reasoning behind this is that we as humans can't understand it sometimes, but it is our spirits who are connecting and won't let go.  Your spirit is trying to relay the message to you that they don't want to completely sever all communication with you, but the human side of us is quite confused by this.

Another side of the coin is that there could still be unresolved issues that is preventing permanent contact with this person and until they are resolved, this person will still play an active part in your life at some point.

A lot of times when a person breaks up with someone, the first thing they think of are their ex's especially if they have become communicative over the years.

But the real reason is the spirit won't let go, no matter what the human side of us tells us what's going on.

Think about that.

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