Maybe It Wasn't Meant To Be Before Now...

Ahh...serendipity. Serendipity means the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way. By "chance" is your key word here. When something happens by "chance" in a happy way, it's like the most beautiful thing. When you are looking for your soul mate and tend to force it (impatient people know what I'm talking about) and it doesn't happen, you get frustrated. But when it happens by chance, you can only shake your head at the luck.

I read the most heartwarming story today at Huffington Post. Check it out and watch the video when you get a chance. It's heartbreaking when people give up finding their soul mate. Sometimes even they think they have found them only it backfires. I've given reasons before about this and one of the main things is that the timing was all wrong. What gives us hope is that if it was meant to be, they will come back into your life when the timing is right. Just keep thinking about that path you are destined to walk and the lessons you need to learn along the way before that happens. You can't go to Point A and expect to reach Point B in a day. Or a week. Or perhaps years. And people get impatient and rightly so. But...until the one that you perceive as the one you want to give you unconditional love forever comes into your life, meet your other soul mates who are put on that path to bring you important lessons or you bring them. Life is funny who it works that way.

Something fun you can do before that happens, make a list of all the people you connected with on a spiritual basis - good or bad. Past boyfriends/girlfriends - family members and pets too - anyone living and breathing who you connected with on a special level, and think of how they enriched your life. After you are finished, look the list over again and see if anyone stands out over the other? That could be your cue. Like they say....maybe it wasn't meant to be before now.

May all your soul mate dreams come true!

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