One of the most frequent questions I am asked is how to tell the difference between a karmic soul mate, companion soul mate or twin soul. One thing you need to remember is that all soul mates - whether it is an ongoing relationship or a tragic one - are just as important as the other.
If you want to believe outside the box (which I do), I wholeheartedly believe that we have not one soul mate but many. If this is true, how would we even start to differentiate between them?
Let's begin with the karmic soul mate. A karmic soul mate is more or less a very close friend or family member for whom you have a special connection. You realize there is a special connection but it goes much deeper. There may or may not be sexual relations (only applies to friends; God help you if it is family). But the sex part would only occur if it was mainly a physical thing and more than likely there would be no marital relations with this person unless the two of you evolve into the companion soul mate category which we'll talk about next. Companion soul mates can start off as friends first after all. So, not to confuse you, a karmic soul mate is a friend or family member who comes into your life to be by your side indefinitely. Even if life takes you thousands of miles away, you still are connected to him or her and they of you. So how to tell if that special person who is in your life is your karmic soul mate? It's someone who comes into your life to have your back, is there for you when the chips are down and loves you unconditionally.
The companion soul mate differs from the karmic. This special person may end up as your husband or wife and with the purpose of extending the "family" way of life. It may or may not end up with having kids but all the qualities of the companion soul mate points to it. For example, if the couple can't have kids, this still puts them in the companion soul mate category. It's usually the one you marry or you may just live together depending on the circumstances. While the companion soul mate category does have karmic soul mate qualities, it's a whole category of itself. If you were in a karmic soul mate category and you end up marrying this person and having sexual relations, more than likely this is your companion soul mate. Does the companion soul mate relationship last? What's eerie about this category is that this is the one category that could be the most volatile. What I mean by that is that divorce is always looming because other soul mates come into one or the other's life which causes problems. However, if the couple can get through whatever problem enters their relationship with flying colors through communication and unconditional love, this relationship will be successful.
The third soul mate category is the coveted twin soul. The twin soul relationship is often misunderstood as "the one." Everyone believes there is a "the one" for them. Why this is misunderstood is because all the soul mates who come into your life do so for specific reasons. Your twin soul is just as important as your karmic or companion soul mate. Think of your life as a road map. Begin at Point A (birth) and end at Point B (physical death). Most people over the age of 60 for example can retrace their life and come up with someone who they believed to be their twin soul. For those under 30 for example, they've only lived half their life so hope is still there if they don't believe they've found their twin soul yet. The funny thing about it is that your twin soul may have already entered your life only you didn't realize it. That spiritual connection is your key to figuring out who this might be. And what's lovely about this is that it can be man, woman, whatever. See why this is often a hard category to figure out given the fact we think the twin soul mate is "the one"? All soul mates are important. There are some people who are more in tune to their spiritual side and this helps tremendously because the twin soul mate matches the spiritual side of you. What is terrible about this relationship is that it often ends tragically. Think Romeo and Juliet. Not to say yours will end tragically of course. If you believe in many lives, your twin soul comes into each life so if it does end tragically, you will see him or her in another life. It just wasn't meant to be in this lifetime and that's why the coveted twin soul is the hardest soul mate to attain.
What we can learn from this is that all soul mates who enter your life do so for reasons that correlate to your life's path in this life. There are many more to come in future lives.
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